The Best Family

There are many families in the world. Some families have problems, so they will decide to divorce. Same families have difficult relationships with children. How can people escape from these problems? That family should become the best family. The best family has no strict rules and is generous with each other. There are three reasons why this family is the best family; there is a good relationship with children, there are no fights in the family, and they will help each other.

First of all, the best family’s parents have a good relationship with children because they do not have strict rules in the family. When children are in a rebellious stage, they do not listen parents’ opinions. Also children try to find out who they are, so they need freedom. There fore, parents should watch what children do. If the parents make strict rules, children rebel against the parents. However, the parents should be model adults because children will do an imitation of them. They can have a good relationship with children.

Second, the best family does not have fighting with each other, because if they are generous with each other they can settle problems by talking. In addition, if they are respect each other, parents do not deceive other people. Also, if children learn how to respect each other, children do fewer misdemeanors. Therefore, the family does not have problems.

Finally, the best family can help each other. If the family gets problems, like the father become unemployed or the parents get injured; for example, the farter gets injured, the mother has to work, so the children do housework or take care of the father. The best family helps each other.

Opponents of the best kind of family say that if the parents give children freedom, they will become delinquent. Young people want to be delinquent. However, if parents make strict rules, children will rebel against the parents; for example, parents make a curfew, but children want to have more time. They will fight, because children think parents do not understand them and parents want to control their children. However, children need this free time or these experiences, because when they get old enough, they cannot do the amusements of childhood. In addition, this stage is to prepare to be adults so children should go out to learn about the social world, social rules, and norms. Making strict rules is nonsense, and it is just parents’ self complacency.

In conclusion, a family should become the best family because the family can have a good relationship with children, they will not make problems, and the family is helpful. Parents should become model adults and children should watch parents and learn about what are adult. Also, family members must respect each other, and do not makes problems. The best family helps each other so the family becomes cooperative. Those things are important for family. To be generous and have no strict rule is keywords for becoming the best family.

by Hiro